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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

11.06.2025 16:59

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

And who doesn’t know suffering?

How severely should I get punished? Please describe throughly. Today I got my result of my test nd I found out that I failed in 2 subjects, my parents are currently in abroad nd I lied to them about the fail but I feel guilty now.

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

Im still living with it.

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What did i know ?

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

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I was very sick at this time too.

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

Why would my nipples hurt when I touch them?

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

Who then, do I blame.?

How do you perform a lap dance for your boyfriend or husband?

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

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Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

I live in Massachusetts. Are there any resources here for people that are being harassed by voice to skull, etc.?

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

But, we were locked up after school.

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

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Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

I write beautiful poetry .

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

Why do creationists ask for proof of evolution and then ignore the answers?

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

This is how, and why children get BPD.

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

Can I use the LEG PRESS to build muscle?

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

Where the ultimate outsiders.

It’s been over a month since I stopped taking sertraline but why do I still feel side effects like brain zaps and anxiety mood changes? The root cause of anxiety it’s your thinking and I perfectly master that better than before so it’s hard lately.

I had hoped to write a book about this .

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

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As i do to all so called friends.?

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

And i lived it daily.

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

Comes on , in middle age.

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

The only rule us 5 kids had .

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

Ive learnt so much.

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

My life is so biszare .

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

One cannot live in the past .

I was 9 years of age.

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

I could never make a relationship work though!

I will be 64.

I know ,a lot about trauma.

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

This is soul school!.

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

Im dying but, im not bitter.

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

All the time i was locked up.

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

So whats the point in blame.

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

She wouldn,t have been !

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

We all went to grammer schools

I waited trembling.

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

He was dying to do it , i knew.

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

We were not on the streets..

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

But ive been too sick for many years..

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

I did it because my mum asked me too!

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

I don,t even have a pension.

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

He resisted the act ,that day.

She was in good health!

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

I said to her

My family never makes their pension either.

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

My mum and dad in the seventies!

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

Especially a lifetime of it.

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

But it wasn’t much.

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

She loved him until the end.

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

I couldn’t, believe it.

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

When she asked me how she looked .

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

She found it foreign!.

I think the readers, may guess!

Why did i forgive my father ?

I never cut or harmed myself..

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

(And it was in our own minds.)

On the 31st of Jan this month .

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

He knew the spot.

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

They are buried together, in the same grave..

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

She married twice! .

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

Was to survive, this bastard.

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

I was scared of men, in general

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

It was going to be , some day.

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

I was seconnd youngest,

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

I have no regrets .

Would this be the day?

Put me off passion for life!!

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

So, i spoilt her more .

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.